Thursday, May 15, 2025

Spain vs. America: A Lesson in Presence and Pace

By: Christ J. Desruisseaux

Spanish culture, in my opinion, is undeniably more vibrant than American culture, to say the very least. The people in Spain seem far more laid-back and present, genuinely embracing life rather than racing through it. There’s an appreciation for joy in the everyday, whether it’s a long meal, a casual stroll, or a lively conversation in the plaza. Conversations are never rushed, and the pace of life is much slower; people truly take their time and enjoy the moment here. Their lifestyle also runs on a much later schedule compared to what we're used to in the U.S. Dinner in Spain rarely starts before 9 p.m., and daily routines begin way later in the morning except perhaps in Barcelona and Madrid, where Sonia, our tour guide, had mentioned that due to the influx of commuters gives the city a somewhat faster rhythm compared to other Spanish cities.

In contrast, life in the U.S. moves at a breakneck pace. Everything feels urgent, and if you’re not keeping up, you’re left behind. It often feels like Americans live to work, while in Spain, people work to live. That mindset shift alone was eye-opening.

Another major difference lies in cultural diversity. While the U.S. is diverse in terms of ethnicity, Spain has distinct regional cultures that shape everything from language to cuisine. The difference between Catalonia, Andalusia, and Madrid isn’t just cosmetic; it’s quite literally foundational. Even simple things, like what ingredients are considered “authentic” in a Paella dish, vary greatly by region. In contrast, American culture feels a lot more homogenous, with fewer strong regional identities.

One fascinating similarity, though, is the shared skepticism toward central government. But while Americans are politically divided on countless issues, Spain’s tension is rooted in cultural suppression and a deep yearning for regional independence. It’s really fascinating to see.